Litigation vs. Mediation
Wednesday, September 28th, 2016
LITIGATION VS. MEDIATION
Comparative Chart
| Conventional Divorce | Mediated Divorce |
| Strict adherence to existing judicial codes and criteria. | Using existing codes along with subjective considerations as determined by the interested parties and their Mediation specialist. |
| Negotiations focused on the past conflicts and negative experiences of the parties involved. | Emphasis on the best interests of all parties moving into the future. |
| Representation by a professional expert in the field of divorce from solely a legal standpoint. | Same legal representation with the added benefit of a holistic person-centered approach to problem solving, parenting plans and assistance with financial planning. |
| Emphasis on individual loss/gain, a series of proposals and counter-proposals often resulting in one or both parties feeling bitter and resentful. | All parties participate in productive discussion with the mutual goal of equity and fairness. |
| Equitable distribution based upon statutory criteria for dividing property. | Impartial financial planning to help both parties plan sound financial futures. |
| Often acrimonious debate of the competence and fitness of one parent over the other. | Emphasis on the best and least-disruptive arrangement for the child(ren). Focus on cooperative parenting. |
| Use of civil discovery procedures to obtain information and documents when a voluntary exchange does not suffice. | Contractual agreement to exchange information and documents that are reasonably necessary to the process. |
| Litigation and negotiation strategies; use of court procedures to influence settlements. | Cooperative strategies to seek common ground and to achieve win-win solutions. |
| Formal drafting based upon a standardized format utilized by legal professionals. | Drafting in understandable modern English; Collaborative revision process. |
| Risk of unwelcome outcomes in the court of law. | Controlled outcome; a fair and workable settlement. |